There comes a point in space and time when you cannot solve a situation. A real scenario took place in my work just yesterday. A friend said "Ali I can get really mad you know". His eyes were fierce and very red. I was calm. I did not get infected by his rage. I smiled and said you want to use fear to push your point of view. Fact is that you are pissed off. Fact is that you want to give up. Fact is you are angry at not being in control. Fact is that you do not have trust in something else that you can trust, to deal with something you can't. He said what is that? I said it is called prayer. Understand that part of you that connects to the ultimate reconciler and release yourself. His eyes smiled. There are many philosophies and political ideologies that love rage. But ancient Iranians known nowadays as Zoroastrians prayed before anyone else. They believed in two forces. One is Khoda and the other is Khodavand. This polarity is necessary to take care of, personal to personal ideals (Khoda) and joint personal to outer world (Khodavand), ideals. This polarity produced Ohrmazd and Ahriman, that was twisted to mean Good and Evil, whereas the polarity is the self and the change. You only want change to be peaceful. Your prayer, or your Sepandarmarzi, will create the change, to get you out of your dead-end, or as we say, bomb-bast. So what do you say? Are the words a sort of magic. No. If anyone tells you that you need a particular "holy word" they are plainly wrong. It is actually a perspective you need. It is not words. Imagination and reflection is what needs to be had, depending on what the type of conundrum you are in. I listen to music and look at photos. Of course everyone sees my astrological photo collection. But for someone with so much emotion, as a Full Moon Capricorn with exact Grand Trine to my Esfand ascendant, I had to learn how to channel the energy. I studied Tai-Chi. I studied I-Ching. I studied Tarot Cards. But they are all relatively recent developments compared to the older energies of Zend-Avesta. This is proved every time I do Tarot cards. They state clearly that there is an older force that it has never seen before. The cards gracefully resign. I go to spiritualists and they can't understand the Iranian spirit of old. And so all Iranians have this Ahuramazdan spirit. It is the bedrock of our civilization, from the moment we entered the Iranian Plateau, some 20,000 years ago. Yes, we had lots of material evidence to show it. But it all got smashed or buried for those who are reading this and are in the Islamic timeline. Yes what I write is a cross over. There are those Iranians in other parallel universes. But I am in this cross over to show the choice you have. The other Iranians are what I call The Ancients of Iran not too dissimilar to the concepts of Ancients in Stargate TV series. You can cross over too. That is what the reconciler does. You jump into another reality. This extremely ancient reconciler has been with all Iranian families for 1000 generations. When you think of your bomb-bast, your 1000 ancestors will be there to help you. That is one heck of a force. But if you only go back to 2014 or 1400 years then you are using a tenth of the force. Only you have the free will to change from this space-time to a better one. Much of the ancient history of Iran is now being reborn by archaeologists if only the existing environment is changed. I can only give you my experience. You need to create yours. Hope this helps. Wait for the jump.