Astrology
SATURN SQUARE OR OPPOSITION VENUS
|
Russell Crowe has Venus Square Saturn |
SATURN IN HARD ASPECT TO VENUS
KEYWORDS:
TRUST ISSUES, WORK IS LOVE, FEAR OF INTIMACY, SELFISHNESS, SERIOUSNESS TO LOVE, NOT COMFORTABLE WITH INTIMACY, FEAR OF NOT HAVING ENOUGH, WITHHOLDING AFFECTION, ALOOFNESS, COLDNESS, SHUTTING DOWN EMOTIONALLY, CONTROL OF EMOTIONS, DOUBT, TESTING LOVE, TIGHT FISTED WITH MONEY, LONELINESS, EMOTIONALLY CLOSED OFF, SERIOUSNESS, UNCOMFORTABLE WITH PLEASURE, AND LIGHTHEARTED FUN.
Saturn in hard aspect to Venus is cold terrain. Saturn will restrict your love nature and make you doubt yourself and others when it comes to love, money and simple pleasures. Where ever we see Saturn in a chart we see insecurity, it was an area in our life that we felt deprived in some way. When Saturn and Venus are involved, Love and affection were sparse, you may have felt like you had to earn it the hard way. Even though there is a sort of austere sexiness about the way Venus/Saturn people carry themselves, very contained they don't get carried away by love and attach great expectations to it. They look at it like a business, what's in it for them as well. With Saturn in hard aspect to your Venus- You love nature comes with responsibility and criticism. Most astrologers believe that Saturn does this out of insecurity and fear. Saturn being restrictions simply put; means that there were restrictions on all Venus rules in your life. You were more than likely raised in a rather cool environment and probably didn't receive the nurturing you needed without a price. Some of you were hurt deeply at some point in your life and have not been able to trust again for the fear of being hurt. Love, pleasure, giving and romance not easy and actually quite uncomfortable for you. Deep down, your insecurities take over and you don't believe that you are worthy of love or you don't believe that anyone loves you when they do.
You feel responsible and that love is a burden. More importantly it is very difficult for you to give love because you just don't know how. You are very uncomfortable with affection because you are afraid of exposing your true feelings in fear of loss or betrayal although you really want it. The way in which you are going about to get it actually works against you because you fear rejection.
Saturn will restrict Venus in all of her aspects, you have a deep seeded fear of never having enough financially, that it may all go away at any time. You tend to attach work and money to love. Your fear of not having enough money can consume you that you end up being tight fisted or cheap. You need to learn to let go and let live. Since, Saturn delays you're not likely to find love until your later years. Saturn in hard aspect to Venus will make you doubt the love of and you can be cold in emotional expression. This will cause most if not all of your relationship difficulties because, "you want what, you don't give".
This failure in relationships will leave you feeling rather lonely in the end. You do need to learn to accept loving gestures, trust in love and believe you are worthy but most importantly give it!
Saturn will put limits on whatever it touches, but you in the end are in control, you can become aware of these tendencies, and you can consciously change it. You can't live in fear and assume that others won't love you. You eventually accomplish this goal of pushing others away, once you start to trust in the beauty of love and feel comfortable in it, You will finally bask in all the love and joy Venus has to offer you. Why not try?
If you are in love with someone with this aspect you may want to see my 10 steps to getting a Saturn Square or Opposite Venus person to commit. You must be a backroom member and you can find it in the extended article reading.More on love blockers check out this:http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/03/astrologys-love-blockers.html
Don't forget to check out my reports page for daily specials!
-
Saturn Square Or Opposite Sun
This aspect can be very difficult to deal with because there are tremendous fears and insecurity as a result of lack of support in order to build the proper self-confidence. The person tends to have very high and even unrealistic expectations of self,...
-
Venus In Capricorn
When your Venus is in the sign of Capricorn your love nature is tightly under wraps. Capricorn is Ruled by the Planet Saturn is a serious planet, that has quite high expectations of both them self and others. Emotional displays in love are less likely...
-
Synastry: Venus Square Or Opposite Mars
This is another one of those aspects that can really go either way, and it really depends on the maturity of the two people involved. It is much easier for a slightly more experienced or mature couple to handle this because they will lack the childish...
-
Natal: Saturn Square Or Opposite Sun
Saturn Square or Opposite Sun: You have had many obstacles in life obstacles that insist on holding you back, or so it seems. This is not by any means a easy aspect to handle, but it is not one that cannot be overcome with the proper awareness, of it's...
-
Venus Aspects In The Natal Chart
Venus aspects describe your relationships (in a general sense) more than you might think. Venus is the general significator for love and relationships in a natal horoscope. Through the different aspects with other points and planets, Venus is "colored",...
Astrology